Getting Back in the Saddle

I haven’t posted a blog in a long, long while. I have, to use the Australian vernacular, “been flat out like a lizard drinking“.Image result for flat out like a lizard drinking commons photosDecember flashed by in a round of parties and get-togethers. As a retiree with theoretically more free time on my hands, they seemed even more frequent and frenetic than when I had a corporate job. The phrase “the end is nigh” entered my head more than once. Why else were we all behaving as if there would be no tomorrow? There were times I doubted my stamina to get through the month.

I stumbled into New Years Day and the annual march of the grandchildren. This time the eldest grandchild returned, #2 was away, #s 3 & 4 came as usual – just a few years older and wiser than when I wrote that previous post. A parent came too, plus he brought a new partner. It’s chaos when a limited-space apartment housing two settled adults swells to seven hyped-up big people, but I wouldn’t miss it for the world. It’s great fun, plus, when they leave, I feel motivated to do a thorough spring clean.

After many days of scrubbing, January continued on as de-cluttering month. My octogenarian step-mother announced that she would like to put her house on the market. My husband and I went to live with her for a week while we dealt with the accumulation of twenty-five years and the mayhem of rooms being re-purposed from their intended design. Then my two half-sisters came in to do the final styling. With our combined efforts, not the least of which was my step-mother being prepared to part with certain things, we finally announced Job Done.

Much of the excess had to be sold, and it seems that the current trend is Facebook buy/sell/swap pages for your local area. Armed with this new knowledge, I returned home determined to clean out our garage and raise some pocket money at the same time.  Say good-bye to another week for that exercise. I’ve had some sales success, but there are still bits and pieces available. For example, collectors plates have had their day and are no longer in demand, even if they are Royal Doulton 🙂 And remember that phase of hand-painting ceramic plates? I had two sweet ones signed by a hobby artist who I quickly discovered had died some years ago. Through I was able to track down her daughter, and am happy to report they are now in her possession. A small unexpected keepsake of her mother.

Then a good friend came to visit us for four days. We had a lot of fun going through some items that I had inherited late last year. This comprised around 100 die-cast model cars and about thirty replica watches. Enter yet another sales project. I’d love to keep the “toy” cars, but I just don’t have the space. Sigh.

More visits, more projects, then bingo! It was the end of February and time for me to hit the road. My old high school year had organised a three-day reunion. Yikes! Thirty or more people, most of whom had not seen each other for forty-seven years. The reunion ran from 1st-4th March and I was taking two days to drive to it. Not to mention the time required for hair and beauty appointments in the lead up. Oh come on! Don’t laugh! You don’t think I would venture into such a challenge without putting my best foot forward do you? (It’s not as if I was the only woman who needed her eyebrows tinted – in fact, this phenomenon of disappearing eyebrows as we age was quite the discussion point among us women! Who’d a thunk it!).

I drove there in Tamara Grace, aka Tammy. Tammy is a 2011 BMW convertible 120i which I inherited along with the toy cars. If any of you have noticed from changed profile pictures that I have been growing my hair, Tammy is the reason. I wasn’t quite sure what to name her. Isadora with her flowing scarf ended her life suddenly, Thelma and Louise drove over a canyon, and even Grace Kelly mis-timed the Monaco curves. Then a neighbour drew my attention to the Art Deco artist, Tamara Lempicke, and her self-portrait in a Bugatti (see below). See the source image

I was very drawn to the spirit displayed in this image, yet my convertible is white and classy, much like Grace Kelly herself. So, undecided which way to jump, the obvious solution presented itself. Give her both names. Hopefully I will have a photo of me in Tamara Grace in the next post.

The reunion was in a rainforest country town called Bellingen, which I have written about before. It’s about 650 klm (400 mi) from home, and I used this trip as an excuse to divert to visit another friend for an overnight stop.

Rather than turn around and head back home in the same direction, we’ve used that initial mileage as an excuse to do another road trip. At the end of the reunion Bill flew up (using all my frequent flyer points which were short by $1.70 – I kid you not, 🙂 ) and we have been on the road now for almost a week.

If I wasn’t so darned exhausted by the reunion, I would have been posting a daily journal of our travels.  I am taking happy snaps on my mobile phone, with every intention of writing a story about them. So watch this space, there is always hope for the future.

Signing off now from Burleigh Waters on the Gold Coast of Queensland. GG 9th March 2019

30 thoughts on “Getting Back in the Saddle

  1. Pingback: Of Wet Alpacas and Other Things | The Reluctant Retiree

  2. As usual LOVE your writing Gwen and that sense of humour that always comes through! I get it!

    Enjoy the road trip!!! Sounds good


    Sent from my iPhone


    • Glad to clarify the book is not abandoned. Some successful writers even recommend stepping away from the writing for a few months – so I have sure done that. The manuscript will be placed on the high priority list as soon as I’m back home. I’ll start by revisiting what I have as if I was the reader.


    • I know the Energizer Bunny very well. I have a girlfriend who can do everything at top speed until the moment that battery runs flat. I joke about the bunny with her all the time.

      I forgot to mention that we had a cruise ship visit in February too. Welcoming 2700 visitors to our city is always a buzz. All the Americans were enthusiastic and gracious towards our volunteer efforts.

      We’ve reached our most northernmost point of this road trip (Toowoomba), we turn south tomorrow, but we are still in the state of Queensland for the moment. It’s been HOT, heading towards 100′ in your language, so I haven’t been as on the go exploring as usual. Still managed a couple of short walks in rainforests and so on.

      Liked by 1 person

  3. Up in Queensland I see, exciting. I am assuming the Gold Coast isn’t quite so hot as the Birdsville area – just finished reading three of Jane Harper’s books including ‘The Lost Man’ set in Queensland. Actually thought about you earlier this year in the heat when reading ‘The Dry’, hoping you are all safe. Enjoy the rest of your road trip.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Harper’s books are still on my TBR pile. I hear The Dry is the stand-out?

      Would you believe the current temps in Queensland are the same as Birdsville’s? The weather is mad all over Oz. M. A. D. Summer seemed to come late, then it hit hard and ferocious. We were doing that de-clutter in 40’c heat and the garage was stifling. Then it went cool – I even had to find a jumper or two. Then it has gone back to the 30’c+, and on the Gold Coast it was very humid as well. phew! Only in the third month and we’ve had drought, flood, cyclone and bushfires. We’ve seen some lovely rainforests on this trip, but they should be wetter, and other countryside is brown dry. Toowoomba, where we are at the moment, is very fertile, but today reached as high as 40’c. There was an article on the news about a mint farmer whose crop (sun) burnt today. It’s gone. Now he has to decide whether to re-plant or re-seed.

      Liked by 1 person

      • Yes, I thought ‘The Dry’ was very good and I think ‘The Lost Man’ probably as good too. I’ve never been to Australia, but she describes a fascinating yet very harsh existence in the Outback. The landscape and weather sound equally tough and reading your comments regarding the summer you’ve been enduring appears as though her descriptions are accurate. I’d be interested in reading your opinions some time in the future as you have travelled extensively and can also bring a resident’s experienced eye to the version Harper offers. Hope you’re staying in places with AC!

        Liked by 1 person

  4. Wow! I felt exhausted just reading your post, Gwen. Sounds as though you’re having a wonderful time. How’s the second novel going? I was in Sydney in February and caught up with Kathleen and Annetta from our Paris group. We spent the day at the Sydney Art and Craft Show. A great day was had by all and we had a lot of laughs.


    • The second manuscript is STILL in the pipeline. I’ve had several goes at it but as a novel it doesn’t meet what the agent needs in the current publishing climate. So we’ve agreed I start it again, this time as a memoir. I was going great guns until the 1st December, and then poooft! Not a word since.

      Chris and I caught up with Virginia and Rosemary a few weeks back. It’s great to stay in touch isn’t it. xx


  5. Sounds like fun Gwen in familiar territory – am envious as this trip has been full of so many new places I’m feeling giddy and dizzy :o(…. Heh – I totally get the vanishing eyebrow thing. South African women have it down to a science – there are remedies depending on how badly you want those brows!!!!

    Liked by 1 person

    • I’m up to your coffee story. I haven’t had time to read it but I can see where you’re going with that experience. I immediately had a pang that I hadn’t thought to mention how to cook it. Something I became adept at!
      I’ve taken my hair down several shades darker from this profile pic. I feel as if I recognise my teenage self as I was naturally very dark; and it co-incided with seeing people who remembered me like that. For the moment, I have eyebrows to match 🙂


I love comments!

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s